10 Commonly Misused Words and Expressions

By guest contributor PJ Feinstein. Photography by Torrie.

Our blogging voices may be unique, but what we should all have in common is good grammar. Readers do notice if you mistakenly use your instead of you’re—and you’d be surprised how often I catch that grammatical error. If you want to take your writing to the next level, start by refreshing yourself on some basic rules of grammar and reviewing these commonly misused words and expressions.

Alright/All right
Although you may see alright used in informal writing, it is properly written as two words—all right.

Compare to/Compare with
Use compare to when pointing out similarities between objects: “My fluffy dog has been compared to a stuffed animal.”
Use compare with when pointing out differences: “I have fewer days off in November compared with last month.”

Effect, as a noun, means “result.” “The effects of this anti-aging cream are amazing!”
Affect, a verb, means “to influence.” “His charm does not affect me.”

Farther refers to measurable distance: “I can run one-mile farther than my husband.”
Further is used for abstract lengths: “I plan to research the topic further.”

Its is a possessive pronoun: “See the hot pink car across the street? I like its color.”
It’s is a contraction of it is: “See the hot pink car across the street? It’s such an ugly color!”

As present tense verbs, lay requires a subject and a direct object; lie does not. “I lay my jewelry on the dresser.”
“Excuse me, while I lie down on the sofa for a few minutes.”

Less refers to a hypothetical quantity: “I like this song less than I did yesterday.”
Fewer refers to a number: “I have fewer Twitter followers than I did yesterday.”

Use may when something is likely to happen: “I may grab a coffee this afternoon.”
Use might to imply uncertainty or an unlikely outcome: “I might finish this blog post tonight.”

Than refers to a comparison: “I’m taller than my sister.”
Then has to do with time: “I’ll eat dinner and then watch TV.”

Your is the possessive form of you: “Your hair is so pretty!”
You’re is a contraction of you are: “You’re so pretty!”


Eden Hensley

Marketing creative, community engagement specialist, technophile, photographer, food and wine enthusiast, and the founder and editor-in-chief of The Road to The Good Life, a lifestyle blog about appreciating and enhancing your life by being grateful for the "haves" instead of lingering on the "wants." There you will find personal stories about my life and family weaved in with real-life, achievable entertaining tips, recipes for hearty home cooked meals, and DIY projects for capturing and sharing memories. I believe the best place to swap stories is over a shared meal, preferably a Thai-meal served family style, and teach an online introduction class to Thai Flavors and host the Family Dinners at The Station supper club in San Francisco.